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Late…but on time
For the last seven years, every spring and every fall, I’ve led a six-week leadership development series at a local university.
We’ve always met on Thursdays from 9-11 am, and I have my departure time down to a science. If I pull out of my driveway at exactly 7:45 am, I know how long it will take me to get onto the interstate and how long I will wait at the 170/64 merge.
In fact, I can also promise you that if I leave on time, I will park my car on the 5th floor of the parking garage that is attached to the building where I facilitate. Not only will I park on the 5th floor of a very full garage, but one of the first five spots on the right, just past the elevator, will be open. I will pull into one of those spots at 8:22 am on the dot.
I say all this with absolute certainty.
Yet
Our group was spending about a month on a cross-cultural immersion trip in the Republic of Georgia. We tried new foods, visited cultural landmarks, learned about Georgia's history, and, somewhere along the way, strangers became friends.
One of those new friends was a delightful Georgian named Malkhaz.
Picture a man with white hair and a long white beard. Imagine infectious laughter. Sense what it feels like to be in the presence of someone who is very wise.
Waiting and Wanting
Over the last few weeks, I’ve found myself spending a lot of time in my car, running errands, squeezing in Christmas shopping, and tying up loose ends that always seem to pop up at the end of the year. I mean, doesn’t everyone forget that property taxes are due in December?
Somewhere between one stoplight and the next, I started noticing that people approach waiting in different ways.
A Broken Toilet and Borrowed Confidence
It had been a long Friday, and I had no one to blame but myself.
I had stacked my calendar like a Jenga tower—four events in one day, each involving clients I love, and work felt life-giving. But even good things, when piled too high, can become too much.
By the time I finished the final workshop, I was running on fumes. I tore apart my backpack, hoping to find a granola bar. Nothing. I checked my car console. Empty. I even cracked open my glove compartment—a home for forgotten things—still nothing.
Face Down On The Floor
Leadership isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about saying ‘me too,’ embracing vulnerability, and trusting yourself to try again. In this post, learn why connection and courage go hand in hand in the human side of leadership.
One Personal Item and One Carry On
At the Reset Retreat, participants learned the importance of setting down emotional baggage, and how transformational moments happen when leaders work within a supportive community.
Leadership is about learning to travel light—not just in baggage, but in life.
The Unexpected
Leadership is about embracing the unexpected, not fearing it. In this reflection, discover how letting go of control and seeing challenges as opportunities can unlock new possibilities for growth and innovation.
And Strangers Gathered
What if we didn’t wait to be invited to celebrate someone else’s success? This blog explores how choosing to celebrate others, even strangers, enriches our own lives and creates deeper connections.
However You Want
There’s no single right way to achieve your goals. In this post, learn how finding your own path in leadership and life can lead to fulfillment and success, even if it’s not the conventional route.
What Else Could It Be?
As leaders, we often make assumptions when information is missing. In this post, discover how the simple question, 'What else could it be?' can challenge your mindset and help you make better decisions and foster more effective communication.